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ChristinaR

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  1. Good morning everyone. The first thing I want to say is Cynthia is a full moderator of this board and has been for some time. I have very little time to be on this board... I need help and she agreed to help me which I appreciate very much. I trust her judgment and stand by anything and everything she feels needs to be moderated.

     

    GoodGirl, your post was very well put and I appreciate it.

     

    Melissa, I do not think Cyn meant to hurt your feelings. Moderating is not easy and sometimes you need to follow your gut. Written words can be taken out of context or misunderstood and I realize feelings have been hurt and that was not the intention. I think all of this has gotten out of hand and is blowing up bigger than it should have. I’m going to say this once and then I’m done explaining myself and the reason why this company was deleted.

     

    Rosegirls was deleted from Candlefind in January. I stand by that decision and have no regrets, NONE! This was a personal decision for my own well being and literally my health. Can I get any plainer than that? Bottom line, I had no choice and have my reasons for myself and my business. This is my company, my hard work and I don’t do things on a whim and yet I have gotten nothing but grief since I did it. I tried having a business only relationship with RG, believe me, I tried but it didn’t work. Can you all please just respect that!

     

    I do not like censoring you guys and I certainly do not like censoring company names. There is not a list of companies blacklisted to reference, I would never do that. But this IS a unique situation. There are hundreds and hundreds of companies to talk about so it’s beyond me why this one company has to be brought up all the time! I am not an unreasonable person, I am not mean spirited and would never intentionally damage or hurt a company or anybody for that matter. But a select few of you keep throwing your digs in trying to make me the bad guy in this scenario. I can only shake my head.

     

    RG makes great candles! I’m not telling you to not shop there, I’m not telling you not to buy from this company, I’m not telling you to do anything other than please not mention this company on this forum. If you want to promote her, go for it, do it all you want… I really have no problem with that but please do it on another board. Please please please respect this because this is making me sick to my stomach. We are all human beings here, Melissa, Cyn… everyone! and we’re all good people. I created this forum for all of you, to have fun and be friends, not to create animosity and anger.

     

    So, I am now stating, shouting in fact… I do not want this company mentioned anymore on this forum. You can love her candles all you want but take it to another board.

     

    Cyn is also my moderator and I will not have her attacked, she’s a good person and she’s not going anywhere. If you feel that strongly about what happened today, I’m sorry and I don't know what to say. I’m sorry that you got hurt Melissa but plenty of other people have gotten hurt today too.

     

    I’ll be going through all these posts and deleting every last one of em that are anger filled so we can get back to discussing our favorite past time. If any of you have problems with what I’ve said, please email me and will discuss it privately.

     

    Christina


  2. I know many of you are questioning why RG comes up the way it does but I specifically have it set up this way for a reason. I'm not going to say bad things about this company and I do wish Kathy the best but Candlefind will no longer promote this company in any way and that includes this forum. This was not a decision made lightly or on a whim.

     

    I don't know what else to say. I wish circumstances were otherwise but unfortunately, they're not.

     

    I hope you all can please understand.


  3. Okay guys, no more "guest" posts. It's very easy to register on this forum and once you're logged in, you're logged in so there is no reason for "guest" posts at all.

     

    mp, to answer your question, on this forum, unfortunately no... for the time being... guest's can post. But, the new forum is just about ready and once it's in place, you will have to be registered and logged in to post.

     

    "guest", whoever you are, please drop it and let it go. This is an "open to read" board and I would like it to remain so. If you don't like what you're reading. Don't read. Plain and simple.

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